some things just never change...

some things just never change...

aiyaaa.. tmrw is submission and i'm here blogging. its about 11pm now. And I have the assignment to do. I guess some things really never do change. lastminuteism strikes again XD

Anyway today I was just thinking about why most of the muslim girls I know in campus who used to be 'modern muslim' girls now has changed. See last time, they used to be really open without tudung and there is no strict rules for clothings for them. Now however, everyone of them wearing tudung... proper pleasant clothes that cover most of the body and also they now complete their daily prayers?
So why now after 19years of their lives? I came to a conclusion that they are ready to 'advertise' themselves for a relationship for marriage. Of course... to be courted by well mannered muslim guys. Thus, the proper tradition of muslim clothing..


So my point of today's blog is actually this. Have you guys ever realised?

• Girls are out there to be courted/chosen/picked up
• Guys are out there to court/choose/pick up

No matter what, women are always out there to be swept off their feet by guys. Guys just don't seem to expect to be swept off their feet XD So thats why guys are always the one courting girls. Girls rarely try to court guys. Cos even if they do, they are still not the one choosing.... they are just going the extra mile to be "chosen" by the guy, maybe perhaps to just try to be on top of his list.
So, are there girls out there who try to sweep guys off their feet?
There are actually...

• The will wash the guy's clothes and pick up after him
• Cook for him perhaps.
  
• Give him backrubs after his work
• Seduce him. Yes they'll try... I believe women would do anything these days.
• Try to listen to his every words (unwillingly of course...)
• Manja-manja around?
• Try to learn his interest. If he's a football fan, she'll learn all about it. If he's a computer wizz, they'll learn all there is to learn. Then try to impress him of course.
• Buy him softoys to put in his car to soft of 'chup' him before other girls do.

Sometimes, kinda scary. Women are more fierce in their persuit to get the guy they want. They would beat up another woman for it. Well, some guys do that too. Hmmm, but I just think women who are very presistant in 'kau-ing' guys scary because they'd do almost anything including threaten to suicide. They would satisfy his every needs or fantasy? Ooops... did I just say that? haha... ok fine, in conclusion, guys, don't underestimate girls. Guys will do a lot to get the girl they want, but they are more passive and would wait in patience. Gurls however, once they target a guy they really want, I believe if they are really persistant for it, they will wage a war with the other women around that guy. Scary stuff huh?

*DO NOT READ ANY FURTHER IF YOU'RE NOT IN THE LOVEY-DOVEY MOOD*

In other news, me and my darling are growing stronger each day =)
Today baby mC cooked breakfast for me. It was sort of an American breakfast set which she did really well. I really enjoyed that dish that I licked it clean.. *slurp*
I'm very happy the way how things are as I can see how we are very ready to commit to one another. Commitment in this relationship is definitely no problem at all. Of course, the best part is that we still get to live our lives as normal with a balanced dose of assignments, CCA, outings, quality time and many more....
I have came to realise this for some time now that the promised life of "a relationship of a lifetime" is happening right now. I'm very keen to take this time to really enjoy the finer things in our relationship because I know once we grad, we won't be seeing each other as often as we can right now. In another note... its funny how a 8-9 months relationship seems so so much shorter compared to one that is about 160+ days. I guess on a average, most relationships are about once a week dating. If one year has 52 weeks,

I guess we have been dating for 3 years plus. Well actually it feels a like a bit longer than that =)
Okay just ignore me, I'm just in a very lovey mood that I'm in 'our' own world... la la la

Love my baby michelle~